Career woman or woman with a career

so I'm reading a book that talks about women w masculine energy... and that if a woman is too focused on her career that may turn her into a masculine woman... it's funny because ppl may think of me as a career woman because of where I am in life and how I have got here... but I've always said that my career is not as important as my relationship... if I become the ceo of y company it's not because I'm a career woman, it's because I have failed at my relationship and my love