The queen is waiting but...

I hear it every day... About how women are approached by men... About how they are wanted by men, sometimes even married men... I hear about how friends, including the muslim ones wearing scarves, are approached by men... What do they have in common? What am I missing? There must be something wrong otherwise how is it possible that no one ever asks me out? I sometimes really think that it's not in the cards for me... Not in this life! But then I get sad and convince myself to try harder... After all, i'm not getting any younger...