you can choose 1 of the 2 roles

either be the bitch that complains ....... because your partner doesn't do anything right and you always have to be the one that takes on the responsibilities

OR

be the victim that gets controlled by the partner and is never allowed to do anything...... or if you do, there'll be a reason why the way that you did it wasn't good enough

...... well........I don't want either........ that's why I shall keep looking......

good night!