It's a good feeling when you hold someone and hug someone and have nothing but love for them...... and yes it's possible to do that without saying the words out loud because it's possible that it might be just you feeling this way ....and yes it's possible to feel this way when you are unsure of how the other person is feeling.... but once you find out how that person feels, if the feeling is not mutual RUN! Don't wait around and hope for something to happen.... just don't!

I'm happy with the decision I made....

If someone is unhappy in a marriage, and they have a kid, should they get a divorce?

I sometimes think that my parents should have....but I have no idea how my life would have turned out if they had! I'm glad that they have each other even if they rarely talk ..... but seeing them like this always ALWAYS upsets me..... that's why I still can't decide what kind of advise I should give people that are having problems in their marriage..... but I know I'm more towards sayin "just get a divorce"!