I have a better argument.......

What about those people that get married...... havve kids etc......... and decide to work in another country and send their money overseas to the wife so she can pay for the children....... should one choose that path in order for the soul to become complete (be takamol berese!)? Or should one work in that other country, spend all the money for himself....... and maybe help some people along the way..........

I need an answer......
i'm gonna get 4 hours of sleep again........ 8/48 .......... not a good thing at alllllll!