Reading the signs.......
This is my new discovery....... I mean it's an experience from the past that has recently started to suddenly make sense......... maybe because now I'm doing the same.......... in a way..........
If you are in a relationship, or you are in the progress of shifting a friendship into a relationship.... and realize that the other person is starting to "bahaaneh biaareh" or keep distance or feel like they are acting weird just run the other way......... or give them the distance they need and wait....... maybe be patient a few times.......but if it happens constantly let them go....... if they really want you they will come back ...... if not then you will know why later........ in my case it was because there was someone else........
if it's in a chatroom (god forbid) .......and they tell you that "oh ur too far........ i like u too much....... I feel bad for making you wait for me...... maybe we'll never see eachother........or maybe we will but I don't want you to get too attached......... because maybe you will meet someone in your own city and i certainly don't want you to stand in the way... i dont want u to feel bad if you fall in love 'cause you have no obligation to me........ etc" ........these are signs....... meaning that I have seen a few girls here that I'm interested in and I think you are in my way....so please leave so I can get on with my new experiences here ....... <<< this way they can make you leave them without having to feel guilty
now...... if it's in real life it might be a bit different......... they start talking to you ......and acting super nicely.......... making you even think "wow, this person is falling in love with me" ........ but as soon as you begin to show them some "attention" in return.... it gets them thinking "omg ...... so this girl likes me too........ but what if my x comes back? she's still single ......she might change her mind........ oh, what have I done?" ............ so u see a sudden change in their personality.........they don't call you as often.........don't want to see you as often......... and feel the satisfaction of "yea, I've still got it........ I can have any girl in this town" ........ in this situation you shall also try to run the other way....... I know it's hard......... the feeling is like "arrrrrrr, another game!!! I'm so tired of these games" ........but life is all a game........... and it will be hard to try to move on for the 1000th time............ but that's just how things are ........ that's why you should only try with the ones that seem to be really worth your time........... so your heart won't be broken 1000 time.........just 2-3 times........... which will make life and the wish for finding love a lot more hopeful than if you gave everyone a shot........
that's all......... I was just thinking about that......and thought that I should share :)
If you are in a relationship, or you are in the progress of shifting a friendship into a relationship.... and realize that the other person is starting to "bahaaneh biaareh" or keep distance or feel like they are acting weird just run the other way......... or give them the distance they need and wait....... maybe be patient a few times.......but if it happens constantly let them go....... if they really want you they will come back ...... if not then you will know why later........ in my case it was because there was someone else........
if it's in a chatroom (god forbid) .......and they tell you that "oh ur too far........ i like u too much....... I feel bad for making you wait for me...... maybe we'll never see eachother........or maybe we will but I don't want you to get too attached......... because maybe you will meet someone in your own city and i certainly don't want you to stand in the way... i dont want u to feel bad if you fall in love 'cause you have no obligation to me........ etc" ........these are signs....... meaning that I have seen a few girls here that I'm interested in and I think you are in my way....so please leave so I can get on with my new experiences here ....... <<< this way they can make you leave them without having to feel guilty
now...... if it's in real life it might be a bit different......... they start talking to you ......and acting super nicely.......... making you even think "wow, this person is falling in love with me" ........ but as soon as you begin to show them some "attention" in return.... it gets them thinking "omg ...... so this girl likes me too........ but what if my x comes back? she's still single ......she might change her mind........ oh, what have I done?" ............ so u see a sudden change in their personality.........they don't call you as often.........don't want to see you as often......... and feel the satisfaction of "yea, I've still got it........ I can have any girl in this town" ........ in this situation you shall also try to run the other way....... I know it's hard......... the feeling is like "arrrrrrr, another game!!! I'm so tired of these games" ........but life is all a game........... and it will be hard to try to move on for the 1000th time............ but that's just how things are ........ that's why you should only try with the ones that seem to be really worth your time........... so your heart won't be broken 1000 time.........just 2-3 times........... which will make life and the wish for finding love a lot more hopeful than if you gave everyone a shot........
that's all......... I was just thinking about that......and thought that I should share :)
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