There is something wrong..... stop pretending that it's ok.......

The more I think about it the more I realize that there is something really weird about relationships these days.......... first of all the proof of that is the fact that so many people are getting married and divorced.........the rate of divorce in Canada is about 45% and about 60-75% of these people get remarried...........

"The USA has the lowest percentage among Western nations of children who grow up with both biological parents, 63%,"

"Before that point (1950), anyone who wanted to end their marriage was going to have to prove allegations of adultery or cruelty. Being able to get a divorce based on the fact that the marriage had broken down or irreconcilable differences may have been a factor in the increase in divorce rates during this decade."

So what is wrong here? Does this game that everybody has invented has a real winner? Don't you think that the rules of this game should change to decrease the probability of ending a marriage? Don't ask me how it should change because I have not thought about it that much yet. But I still think that it's stupid to decide to get married, probably after many years of dating, and end up divorcing...... specially when you have kids!! They are the poor victims here..... and we are wondering why there is more violence and cruelty in this world? when there is no love...... when people are always afraid of being left alone........ when everything has become so complicated because of the lies and dishonesties............when everybody thinks that they should pretend to be something that they are not just to be a good player.....what should we really expect from the relationships today and the children that are growing up in this cruel world?

anyways........ I was thinking of the people around me.......and how they have all been in relationsihips and ended up breaking up.......... how guys have become so crazily complicated!!! like what is up with the rule that "u should keep them wait......." ........ i was talking to a girl yesterday who said that she has been in a relationship with this guy from NY who she has seen a few times since august..... and even now ........after 6 monthes when she messaged him (txt msg) after talking on the phone (saying something sweeet like "i love you") she didn't hear a reply from him until the next day...........

and another friend of mine was almost engaged with a guy who didn't really treat her nicely ..... but for some stupid reason she decided to try to make her relationship work.......and they eventually broke up.............

I've heard to many sad stories..........specially in Iran the stories are usually about girls getting married while they are in a relationship with another guy and ending their relationship (hopefully) on the day (or a few days) before they get married....

anyways.......... i have to go eat lunch....................

see u later





http://divorcerate.ca/
http://divorce.lovetoknow.com/Historical_Divorce_Rate_Statistics
http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2005-07-18-cohabit-divorce_x.htm