Who's the winner?

Is the winner the one that's holding the gold medal in the end or the one that's smiling for trying to win it?

In everyday life, there are a lot of arguments. In every argument someone wins. Sometimes you win by logic, sometimes the other person that you're talking to accepts your answer and backs off. But sometimes, eventhough you're wrong, you say something that's totally irrelevant and illogical. Sometimes it's something that you pulled out of your A** and doesn't make any sense at all, not even to you! But it distracts you and everyone from the real argument. And I'm one of the only people who can do this! hahaha....let me warn you that it doesn't always work out..... sometimes it's followed by embarresment and that AGAIN can be followed by another argument that can distract everyone..... you can cry about it later ;)

Another way to win an argument is to just shut up after a while and smile. Well, I donnow if you can call it winning but when you smile the other person gives up and gets frustated from the fact that you are not paying any attention at all. In my world, I usually don't ever give anyone the satisfaction of knowing that they're 100% right in an argument! Well, you see, it's not something that I'm proud of. I usually don't argue unless I'm sure that I'm right. And if I turn out to be wrong, as I said before, I get so embarresed that I might just start crying! I never get angry, it's an emotion in me that I almost lack! So my tears replace my anger and frustration. :(

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