What are the limits in your life?

think for a second and then read the rest

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I hope u did not try to answer that question!

I tell u why....

To think of a limit in life is like trying to find a limit in infinite! There are no limits to infinite ,therefore, there are no limits to one's life!

There are no limits to the human imagination. There are no limits to our capacity for change!
There should be no limits to the things that people want and need

Life is full of possibilites and opportunities, as soon as one door closes another one opens

So please Do NOT limit yourself to one thought.. or to one goal...

Self-confidence is an attitude which allows individuals to have positive yet realistic views of themselves and their situations. Self-confident people trust their own abilities, have a general sense of control in their lives, and believe that, within reason, they will be able to do what they wish, plan, and expect.

Having self-confidence does not mean that individuals will be able to do everything. Self-confident people have expectations that are realistic. Even when some of their expectations are not met, they continue to be positive and to accept themselves.

People who are not self-confident depend excessively on the approval of others in order to feel good about themselves. They tend to avoid taking risks because they fear failure. They generally do not expect to be successful. They often put themselves down and tend to discount or ignore compliments paid to them. By contrast, self-confident people are willing to risk the disapproval of others because they generally trust their own abilities. They tend to accept themselves; they don't feel they have to conform in order to be accepted.

Self-confidence is not necessarily a general characteristic which pervades all aspects of a person's life. Typically, individuals will have some areas of their lives where they feel quite confident, e.g.,academics, athletics, while at the same time they do not feel at all confident in other areas, e.g., personal appearance, social relationships.

Surprisingly, lack of self-confidence is not necessarily related to lack of ability. Instead it is often the result of focusing too much on the unrealistic expectations or standards of others....(http://www.couns.uiuc.edu/Brochures/self.htm)

Some people spend all their lives refusing to face an emptiness within them, a void that communicates an aching sense of wrongness and shame about themselves. They may try to cover thae pain with material success and accomplishments, or numb it with unhealthy behavior, or turn to others to fill up this "hole in the soul," as John Bradshaw calls it. What they lack is self-esteem. Self-esteem is more than feeling self-confident or spouting positive affirmations. It goes to the heart of personal identity, conveying the belief that we are acceptable, respected, and loved as the persons we are--with all our feelings and sensations and even imperfections.( http://www.geocities.com/simplebea/self_steem.html)

If you expect bad things, then you will notice and focus on the bad things that are always happening, and you will fail to notice the good things.

Conversely, if you choose to focus on the good things that are also always happening, you will notice them more readily and be able to take advantage of them. And that CAN cause more good things to happen.

dare to dream! and dream high!
And remember

>No one will believe in you until you believe in yourself!<

beh nazar kheyli asoon miad! va vaaghean believe it or not it is that easy! if you believe in yourself ... no matter how ugly , short, fat, or "monstreous" you are ... everybody is going to believe in u too! I've seen it! It works!

" if you never try, you'll never knowJust what you're worth"